However, parenting a child with special needs includes the same elements as parenting a child with ordinary needs. Every parent may take on a number of roles depending on the child’s age, circumstances and needs. These include the following:

  • Guardian
  • Gives love
  • Teaches about life
  • Manages relationships
  • Sets boundaries

Important to remember the following:

  • The primary duty of a parent is to be a parent, not a rehabilitator.
  • Look after your wellbeing, too. Then you have a better capacity to face your day-to-day routines. Do not neglect your adult contacts, your relationship with your partner and other people in your close circle. If you feel tired-out, get help in time.
  • Trying is the most important thing. Nobody can succeed every time. Therefore, be merciful and understanding – to yourself and your child. Nobody needs to be perfect. You are the best parent for your child. Nobody loves your child as much as you do.
  • A child has the right to feel she is good and loved and do things she can and be what she is. Companionable sharing and small successes support the child’s self-confidence. The child should be able to have hobbies and interests he or she likes and feels good at.
  • Focus on the future, emphasise goals, not difficulties. Be happy about small things. Do not compare with others.

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